Wednesday, June 20, 2012
the guy who "gets what he wants"
there's always some element of a challenge for some men (who aren't LDS) to date a woman who abstains from sex.
they either think abstinence will be like a detox for them -a cleanse- a healthy challenge. that's a noble idea and some of them find out in 6 weeks that they're either enriched by the relationship and want to keep chugging, or find that it isn't for them and we part ways...
they think i'm conquest to be had.
he may think HE's the guy to change my mind-as if i only abstain because i haven't found someone who was man enough yet....
that guy is the kind of person who drops this sentence:
"i always get what i want"
i've heard that more than once...
as it turns out, i am reduced to a "what."
not a person.
an object to be had or seized.
i ALSO get "what" i want (which is usually in the form of food...) and i also choose "who" i want.
and, to nod to my broadway debut,
you're [not] the one that i want.